As I’ve been thinking about taking more action in my own life, and truthfully feeling a little overwhelmed and exhausted by the idea, I thought about the concept of budgeting time and energy the way we (should) budget money. Where does our energy go everyday? How about every month? Can we create more energy?
Thinking about creating more energy gave way to a realization. When I am really motivated to do something I have the energy I need. I am pushed to do it without needing to convince myself or force myself. It actually feels good to do it, and in that way it is easy to get started and stay committed to the task at hand. What is that about?
As I’ve come to know for sure, your feelings never lie. They tell you everything you need to know, if you just listen. Energy is no different. When something drains your energy, that is telling you something. And when something pumps you up, or at the very least doesn’t pull you down, that is telling you something as well.
We’ve all heard the idea to “Follow your joy” or “Follow your bliss”…I think the more accurate advice should be to “Follow what sparks you”. Think about it. When was the last time you did something that sparked you, that gave you a little zap of energy, inspiration, or just excitement? What made you curious or moved you to get up and DO something?
I once spoke with a therapist and she told me about different aspects that make up a person’s life and how we must consciously contribute to each aspect in order to feel more fulfilled. Kind of like paying the bills for your house, you need the lights, the water, the rent, the internet, and each one needs to be paid monthly to keep your house running. Same goes for your life. The different aspects need you to pay them some attention, time and energy, to keep your life running at its fullest.
I have mapped out a few aspects that could use a little time and energy in my own life. And seeing what it would be like if I added a bit more time and energy into each or even just one and see if I feel any difference. I invite you do try it out too.
I think a lot of us put a lot of time an energy into maybe one or two of these aspects and possibly no time and energy into a couple of these aspects. And yet, all play a roll in our lives and all are important to fully rounding out who we are as people. I think some of it also has to do with what is in our comfort zone and what isn’t. I know I can easily put time and energy into mental health and learning, but really devoting time to my physical health and nutrition is much more challenging. I’m sure everyone can relate to some of these aspects being more challenging than others to pay attention to.
So, for the next month or so, I am going to make an effort to find what sparks me in each of these categories and follow that spark into action! Maybe you want to see what sparks you too?